"Finding Yourself..."

I've always been curious about this notion of "finding yourself." You are with yourself every day. It is impossible to lose yourself! It is more accurate to think in terms of contemplating the type of person you would like to be with every day, the type of person you would like to be...and then practice behaving in ways that create that person. Then you can always be assured of being with someone you can be proud of, of being someone you can be proud of! Life is an intentional endeavor which requires intentional decisions about how we each want to behave, and how we each want to be seen by ourselves and others. If we make conscious, intentional decisions about our lives, we benefit from having lives we can be proud of. In doing so, we cultivate quality relationships, both with ourselves, and with others!