Monday, November 17, 2008

Fear: An Equal Opportunity Emotion

In these economic times one might assume that those who are less financially secure are the most fearful, and yet I don't believe that is the case. Fear is an emotion which strikes us all in uncertain times, because it is the unknown which we are most afraid of. (I think that should technically be..."of which we are most afraid...") We are afraid we will need to do without something, and the something we will need to do without may be different depending on our financial resources, but it generally is something we are either use to having, or feel we must have to live. In any event, if the "need" is not a basic need such as food, shelter, clothing, warmth, water, etc...it may not be truly a "need" and might be done without. It is important, particularly in these economic times, to keep focused and clear on what we "must" have, as apposed to what would be nice to have, but wouldn't kill us not to have. It is important to stay focused and clear on what our priorities are, and what will truly enrich our lives...not just allow us to be more comfortable. And we know what those priorities are: relationships, love, acceptance, and peace of mind through self respect, generosity, and compassion for ourselves and others. The rich and the poor alike have control over the acquisition of these things! Because these things lie within us, and are dependent on our own decisions regarding how we treat each other and how we handle our inner and our relational lives.! Relax! Most of the more important things you need, you can get...regardless of what the stock market decides to do!

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